Abortion
April 17, 2008
mommynotes
Tags: abortion, adoption, another choice, moms, prolife, tourching stories, women
Ok I talked with a friend last night and I am not going into details but she just found out she is pregnant and she and her husband have been separated off and on for over a year. It is his child and it could not have come at the worst possible time. Many of her family members encouraged her to get an abortion or to give it up. No matter what you are going through abortion is not the answer and adoption since she is married and has two other children is not an option for her. She obviously is not doing either of these. She looks at this baby as a gift even though it is a bad time for her. She cried out for many years to have children and she had five miscarriages before she had her first child and then her second was a surprise also because she has a disease that does makes it extremely hard for her to get pregnant on her own. She had to do IVF with her first child.
I am against abortion. My cousin was not able to have children and she adopted a beautiful little boy that parents did not want him. I think adoption is the best way for those that cannot have children or want to provide a home for another child. Every child is special and valuable . This is my view. You can comment. If you disagree I am not arguing with you. You feel your way and I feel mine.
God knew us before we were born. I have dreamed about every single one of my children with their names before they were even thought about and I know that was from God showing me my girls and their purpose in this life. I know at some point I am going to have a son because I have seen him as a child and as a baby and me being pregnant with him. I am a firm believer that life is precious and sacred and to murder a baby is unthinkable to me. At 8 weeks along I could see my girls kicking, sleeping, moving around and I could see their heart beat on the ultra sound and your going to tell me that is not a person but a thing. They can feel pain and sadness. Human life is a gift! Children are a gift!
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Ciara | April 17, 2008 at 12:34 pm
Hi! I have read your blog a few times, it is amazing and I could not agree more. Someone very close to me has gotten an abortion. Her and the father were young when it occured but the fathers family wencouraged her to keep the child, if she didnt want it they would take it. She was to pressured by her father who encouraged and abortion and she gave into him. She now regrets and, she cries at night because of it and everything. The part that interested me the most was ” I am against abortion. My cousin was not able to have children and she adopted a beautiful little boy that parents did not want him. I think adoption is the best way for those that cannot have children or want to provide a home for another child. Every child is special and valuable .” This was inspiring because i couldnt agree more, if you dont want the child at least let it live. Abortions are horrible and your blog explains the importance of not getting one. Please check out my blog on abortion as well, the adress is http://abortion4.blogspot.com/. Thank you, Ciara.
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princess | April 17, 2008 at 12:36 pm
i agree with you, im doing the same topic on my blog for a class. nobody should think about getting an abortion! check out my blog sometime
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mommynotes | April 17, 2008 at 3:06 pm
Thanks for commenting. I am glad my post inspired you. I spoke directly from my heart. I remember a lady in church going through a deep depression b/c she had an abortion in her teens. She had since had children and still she could not get over it. I knew someone in highschool who told me they were getting an abortion. I tried to talk them out of it. I prayed Lord please stop them. I say her a few days later all happy and said I got rid of it. I prayed for her b/c I knew at 15 she may not understand the ramifications of what she did but now that we are in our late 20s early 30s she may. My heart broke that day. I will definitely check out your blog. Thanks!
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mommynotes | April 17, 2008 at 3:08 pm
Hey thanks for commenting. I will definitely check out your blog. Yes, I got in trouble in middle school b/c I am a very passionate prolifer and I had pictures of what babies look like after an abortion so needless to say in the public school system it does not bode well. Anyway I have calmed down and found speaking from the heart can go just as far or further than scaring people with pictures and harshness. I wish every person could view an ultrasound before making that decision I guarantee they would change their minds.