Archive | April, 2010

Do Babies Ruin Bodies?

22 Apr

I was a little disgusted at this comment from Jillian Michaels. I love her and I love the show the Biggest Loser but this can be a very hurtful comment to those of us who have had children. In a recent interview she expressed her desire to adopt instead of  having children due to the impact it has on a woman’s body. Well, yes my body is nothing like before I got pregnant.  After my first daughter I did go right back to my old size. I have a ways to go after my second but that is my own emotional eating and stress that has caused my weight issues not the birth of my peanut. I would definitely take  my girls and my now body than my skinny self and no children!

She is a fitness trainer. She would know how to stay fit during pregnancy and she could go right back to it after. She is not saying much about her skills if she thinks that. I have seen many a mother go right back to their pre-pregancy body by staying healthy during pregnancy and continuing that after. I do applaud her for adopting but before she counsels people on body image she may want to seek counseling herself!


The Library

22 Apr

While the girls were in school, I headed over to the library. I proceeded to just a few books for them but I ended up with almost 40. They love to read. My oldest reads a book or more every night and just devours it. My youngest loves getting books from the library and having myself, her sister or her daddy read to her. I am so glad they love to read. We help inspire this passion I think. We have been reading to them since they were newborns. Technically Peanut has been read to since she was in the womb because Pookie would read to us or we would read to her. I was not too sure if my oldest would like the Laura Ingells books I grew up with but she was excited that I checked one out. We may add these to our collection but I want to make sure she likes them first. I love the Library!

Idol Gives Back and another contestant goes home

22 Apr

Idol raised millions last night in Idol Gives Back. It was the end of the line for Tim Urban. I thought the bottom three were right on. Here is the scoop from Entertainment Tonight.

The 4-1-1 on Kate Gosselin’s Exit from DWTS

21 Apr

It was sad that the fun must end but Kate’s partner was anything but sad. According to sources,  he was relieved. According to this entertainment blog, here is the full scoop!

Raising Smart Girls

21 Apr

On a recent post I wrote another mom wrote me back with some similar issues in her own daughter. She made a few suggestions. You can read her comments on my post. Her blog is amazing so I thought I would share it. It is called Raising Smart Girls.  Check it out! This is one of the reasons I love blogging because I meet so many neat people!

When the preschool calls!

20 Apr

I rarely write anything personal about my children because some things should stay private but felt this could help someone or even help me so here is my story.

My youngest daughter’s preschool called for their spring phone conferences. I was shocked at what my daughter’s teacher wanted to discuss with me. She said, that a lead teacher had observed my daughter at the Easter egg hunt and thought our county school system could help her. I worked in the school system. These special programs are for special needs kids and kids needing assistance with speech, PT, OT, or behavior therapy.  I personally believe that they would laugh me out of there. One on one she will talk a stranger’s ear off. I think at that point they would see she does not need any help. I know when she gets to kindergarten they have play groups she could attend to help with socialization because my older daughter actually participated in one.

My daughter is a healthy, happy girl who has hit and exceeded all of her milestones. She is speaking on a kindergarten level and is extremely bright. She amazes me everyday. I have been a preschool teacher. I know you need to look out for warning signs but not being able to put on a backpack correctly, cutting with scissors correctly or being quiet are not always signs of delays. They are things I need to keep a close eye on and practice with her but I feel this is going to the extreme.

Peanut has been talking since she was 2 months old and I am not exaggerating. Her first word at 8 weeks old was “mama”. She was speaking on a three- four year old level at 18 months. She apparently does not want to share that vocabulary at school. She is extremely quiet her teacher says. As soon as she gets in the car, she is nonstop chatterbox. She tells me all about her day.  She is very independent at home. She is new to preschool this year where as all the other kids have been in some kind of program for a long time. She never participated in an Easter Egg hunt before but did quite well with her sister on Easter. She found 18 eggs all by herself. She builds these incredible things out of legos and blocks. She is in ballet and tap. She loves to run and jump and sing.

You have to also take into account that she turned three right before they started preschool. She is the youngest in the class. Most of the other kids turned 4 a while ago so if you are comparing an early three to a late three early four than you are comparing apples to oranges. I say this because there are some things such as cutting with scissors that just take time. The number one reason I placed her in preschool is for the social interaction. I wanted her to be with kids her own age and not just her sister. She prefers older kids to ones her age but she is getting better. She participates in all the activities they do and she does play with her friends. I think there may be some anxiety there. I think she may feel overwhelmed. Prayerfully, as I continue to put her in social situations with large groups of her peers she will feel more comfortable.

Clark Howard said he was kicked out of kindergarten as a kid and labeled slow or delayed. I think they got that one wrong. The reason they labeled him this way was he would not talk in school. Clark Howard is one of the smartest financial guys you will meet. What I learned in school, counseling and as a mom is you have to assess all situations of a child not just one. Peanut is extremely different at school then she is at home. Instead of asking me this one simple question they made a bunch of assumptions and labeled her as delayed. You have to look at the whole picture not just half!

Thanks for all the feedback I have received. These are things I am keeping a close eye on.

UPDATE: I wrote my daughter’s teacher a note expressing my concern and I thought maybe she was going through some social anxiety. When I picked Peanut up today, she had a sticker on her nose. I asked why she got that and said she sang a song to her teacher by herself in front of the other kids. I told her I was so proud of her!

Octomom on Oprah

20 Apr

I thought this was a great interview. I think some of the denial of having all of her children has worn off. I loved Oprah because she could keep Nadia focused. Sometimes she tends to continue talking and repeating herself so I thought that was good. I can tell she is a passionate mom but how are her kids coping? It seemed like mass chaos from the video I was watching. I pray that she can continue to support them and care for them.  I think having Michelle from 19 kids and counting might be a beneficial mentor. I think a schedule would be beneficial. I cannot imagine staying sane without my schedule. I pray they will all be okay. There is a lot of work left to do. I think I did see a different side to her and I think the interview will help her image. I cannot even imagine what all of them must be going through.